SPOTIFY STUDY SHOWS MUSIC IS MORE AROUSING TO WOMEN THAN TOUCH

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DAMN!! All that time that we, men, spent perfecting that special touch. All those countless hours of practice, spent, in an effort to close the gap on the lesbian advantage. Now a new study shows that all we should have done was play a song for the ladies and the deal will be sealed….Damn you Marvin Gaye….Damn you Lionel Richie!!! Well, maybe not completely. Music does make her loose control!!The study was commissioned by digital music service Spotify to examine the relationship between music, romance and seduction.

“Dirty Dancing” was the top pick for both men and women, although the study’s author, music psychologist Daniel Mullensiefen, also pointed out that men are more willing to adjust their tastes in music in order to ensure “greater success in the bedroom.”

Well played, gentlemen.

Another surprise finding? Respondents said music playing in the background is 40% more likely to turn them on than the touch or feel of their partner.

Rather not listen to “Will You Love Me Tomorrow” during sex? Marvin Gaye’s “Sexual Healing” placed second on the list, with Ravel’s “Bolero” finishing third.

“It’s no surprise that so many respondents claimed to find music arousing in the bedroom,” Mullensiefen said in a release. He said music activates the same pleasure centers of the brain that respond to rewards such as food, drugs or sex.

One in three participants identified Queen’s “Bohemian Rhapsody” as a song that is “better than sex.” Next on the list was “Sex on Fire” by Kings of Leon and “Angels” by Robbie Williams. Mullensiefen describes these as songs that take unexpected turns that we respond to in highly emotional, but positive, ways.

The study interviewed 2,000 people in the United Kingdom between the ages of 18 and 91, with an almost equal gender split.

Mullensiefen is co-director of the Master Program in Music, Mind and Brain and senior lecturer in the department of psychology at Goldsmiths, University of London.

He said even though some UK pop hits were favorites coming out of the study, he believes many results would also hold true in the United States. Mullensiefen said the best tracks for getting in the mood all possess similar vocal qualities, like a wide, dynamic range, more use of the “high chest voice” and raspiness. He offers Gaye’s “Sexual Healing” and “Let’s Get it On” as examples.

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STEPHANIE RICE, OLYMPIC GOLD MEDAL SWIMMER, CRITICIZED FOR WEARING RACY SWIMSUIT

Swimmer Stephanie Rice, who swims for a living while wearing a swimsuit in a swimming pool, is catching flak in her native Australia for tweeting a picture of herself in a swimsuit. The nerve of some people.

The three-time gold medalist took the shot of herself wearing a birthday gift from designer Ellie Gonsalves and posted it on Twitter. It made figurative waves one month before she defends her Olympic titles in both individual medleys.

Some Twitter commenters thought it was another disgrace to an Australian swim team that’s recently dealt with a gun controversy. There was also concern that Rice’s sponsor, Speedo, would be upset by the photo because — I don’t know — they don’t like free publicity? But, rest assured, Rice isn’t even with Speedo anymore!

Oh, how you disappointment me my Aussie friends. I can see how this would be a big deal in America, what with our Puritanical sensibilities and penchant for affected moral outrage. But in Australia? The land founded as a penal colony where everyone’s laid back, even when comparing the size of their knives? She’s a swimmer in a swimsuit! That’s like getting upset at Michael Phelps for walking around shirtless. Plus, isn’t it like 115 degrees during Melbourne summers? I just assumed everyone walked around like this.

My theory: This controversy was ginned up so papers in Australia had a legitimate reason to run the photo. For shame, y’all. We’d never stoop so low in the United States. (See below for more Rice photos.)

 

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The current 400 IM world-record holder has been in trouble before for tweeting racy pictures. A few years ago, she posted this picture of herself dressed as a police woman.

Stephanie Rice cop outfit on Twitter

(Twitter)

Despite the absurdity over the uproar, Stephanie isn’t necessarily in the right. Doesn’t she know the rule about taking racy photos of yourself in the mirror and sending them over social networks? Angle the phone to the right so the flash doesn’t obscure your face! Or don’t take them. Yeah, that’s what I’m probably supposed to say there.

From Yahoo Sports

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“NAKED BLACK JUSTICE” CAMPAIGN IS ART, NOT PORNOGRAPHY

Click the image to open in full size.I FOUND THIS ON LIPSTICK ALLEY. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS? CHECK OUT THE VIDEO BELOW AND READ MORE:

Here we go again. Someone is reporting us to Facebook for violating community standards, and this week’s example (last week it was a photo of an indigenous woman breastfeeding her child) had to do with a “Naked Black Justice” campaign that, quite frankly, was powerful and resonated with many (hundreds of likes and shares in about 30 minutes). Artististically, naked, nude black male and female models is an art form. We made sure the the image linked back to the campaign’s original link. We thought the message was amazing. The image is to the left:
This morning we logged into our Facebook and were told that this image violated its community standards. It was just a generic violation, we are sure it was automated, so we don’t know EXACTLY why the photo got taken down. Yet, we are thinking that it has to do with the “nudity” clause. According to Facebook, this is what they have to say about “violations,” in their own words:
Facebook reviews reports to determine whether or not the content violates our Terms of Use. We remove content that is considered obscene, violent, malicious or otherwise offensive. If you received a warning about an item that was taken down, then we have established that it violated these terms.

We would still like to know what is “obscene, violent, malicious, or otherwise obscene” about this image. The image is the start of a much-needed campaign to start destroying stereotypes about race and our perception of them. According to the campaign’s creator, this campaign is SUPPOSED to make you feel uncomfortable, to make you think, to make you act. We were not surprised that our community on Facebook (some of the smartest and most amazing people we know) resonated instantly with this image. Here is what the campaign’s creator has to say about his art:
This photography campaign was designed to bring attention to the issues of racism, prejudice and overall ignorance that has been impressed upon Black Americans. This is no longer just a statement…it has become a MOVEMENT to get others to understand that the world would be such a better place if we could just ERASE THE HATE!! Nudity was implemented to demonstrate the RAW REALITY of these issues…so if it causes you to become uncomfortable while viewing this…GOOD…maybe it will challenge you and others to take a stand against these injustices.

 

 

MESSAGE FROM THE ARTIST JAMES C. LEWIS

This photography campaign was designed to bring attention to the issues of racism, prejudice and overall ignorance that has been impressed upon Black Americans. This is no longer just a statement…it has become a MOVEMENT to get others to understand that the world would be such a better place if we could just ERASE THE HATE!! Nudity was implemented to demonstrate the RAW REALITY of these issues…so if it causes you to become uncomfortable while viewing this…GOOD…maybe it will challenge you and others to take a stand against these injustices. If you would like to become apart of this Awesome Campaign

Photographer James C. Lewis

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NIGERIANS AND NUDITY – IS THERE A DOUBLE STANDARD?

I just came across this Picture on Facebook today. It was called of ‘Three Nigerian Girls Posing Nude’. Upon a second look, it is actually the same girl dong her rendition of See no evil, Speak no evil, Hear no evil. As an artist, I have no problem with nudity as long as it is done tastefully. I think the human body is beautiful and a work of art by God, so why should we hide it or be ashamed of it?

I think that this girl beautiful. I don’t care if she is American, British or Nigerian. Beauty is Beauty. We must embrace our beauty. We must love ourselves. We must promote our beauty. If we do not, no one else will.

The person that posted this image said that the comments from the original post have been 90% negative. This is what he said, “Do you think Africans have a double standard when it comes to nude pictures…Lets face it, when Americans or the British pose nude most Africans call it Sexy, Hot, and Creative, and when Africans pose nude  most Africans view it in a negative light”. What are your thoughts?

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