BUS DRIVER UPPERCUTS GIRL ON A BUS: VIDEO

What are your thoughts on this issue? I believe that no one should put their hands on anyone else. The girl in this situation spat on the driver, punched and tried to choke him as well. It’s difficult to judge how a person will react when they are punched. Wath and comment.

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SHAFILEA-AHMED, UK HONOR MURDER CASE: WITNESSED BY SISTER

Shafilea Ahmed UK HONOR MURDER

The sister of a teenager who was murdered by her parents when she refused to agree to an arranged marriage saw the killing, a court was told on Monday.

Alesha Ahmed told police she watched  her parents “acting together” during the murder of her older sister Shafilea Ahmed, 17, in September 2003, Chester crown court heard.

Their parents, Iftikhar Ahmed, 52, a taxi driver, and his wife Farzana, 49, deny murdering Shafilea, whose badly decomposed remains were found near a Cumbrian river in February 2004.

Alesha, now 23, told police what happened in August 2010, when she was arrested for her part in a robbery at the family home in Warrington, Cheshire, the court heard.

Prosecution barrister Andrew Edis QC described the information as the final piece of the jigsaw; until then there had been no direct evidence linking the parents to the murder.

He said it was an extraordinary thing to accuse your parents of murder, to say “you were there and watched your parents murder your sister”.

He said for the past “almost nine years, Alesha Ahmed had lived under the most extraordinary of circumstances”, as had the whole family. There are three younger siblings.

Alesha had told friends about the killing between September and December 2003, but she soon retracted her comments and returned to the family home where she was brought back into “silence and denial”. It must have been a great strain because of her divided loyalties, Edis said.

The court heard that during a trip to Pakistan in February 2003, Shafilea had been introduced to a cousin whom her parents wanted her to marry. She drank bleach at her grandparents’ house in Pakistan, which her mother had claimed was a mistake during a power cut.

Edis said there was no way anyone would pick up a bottle in the pitch black of a bathroom and drink from it. As soon as she drank it, she screamed. It was, he said, a self-destructive act or one of serious self-harm. He also questioned why the trip to Pakistan did not  involve marriage if her father only bought a one-way ticket for his daughter.

Shafilea was taken to Warrington hospital for emergency treatment when she returned home in May 2003.

A patient who asked her why she had drunk bleach was told: “You don’t know what they did to me there.”

Edis said Shafilea told the patient her parents had accepted a formal offer of marriage from her cousin and “that is why she drank the bleach”. Edis said: “She didn’t even like the guy, she wanted to get out of there but they had taken away her passport.”

On Monday,, poems written by Shafilea were read to the jurors. One was called Happy Families and the other I Feel Trapped, in which she expressed her frustration about her family’s concerns over honour and said she felt trapped. “I don’t pretend like we’re the perfect family no more,” one of the poems said. “All they think about is honour.”

She was murdered, Edis said, because she failed to conform to her parents’ wishes and they embarked upon a campaign of domestic abuse after she allegedly “brought shame” on the family.

Shafilea’s remains were identified by DNA and she was wearing westernised clothing – white stilettos – and her hair had been dyed red. By her clothing, the prosecution said, she was “seeking to demonstrate something of her independence and freedom”.

She was described as a Westernised young British girl of Pakistani origin at the beginning of the murder trial.

The prosecution said her parents had standards that she was “reluctant to follow”. In particular, like most 16- or 17-year-old girls she wanted boyfriends, which caused intense pressure on the family. Her parents controlled her so she did not have freedom of movement, Edis said. She ran away briefly from home in 2002 and early 2003.

In February 2003, shortly before the trip to Pakistan, Shafilea was “recaptured or abducted” by her father outside the gates at Great Sankey high school in Warrington, where she was a pupil. She was forced into the car after she had run away.

In the year before she died, the prosecution said, her parents “embarked on a campaign of domestic violence and abuse directed at her and designed to force her to conform so that she behaved in a way that was expected.

“The defendants had spent the best part of 12 months trying to crush her will, realised they were not going to succeed and finally killed her because she had dishonoured the family and brought shame on them.”

Edis said Shafilea went missing on 11 September 2003, but it was not reported to police until a week later. “Not by a member of her family, but by a teacher.”

The prosecution alleges she was murdered by her parents at the family home on the night of 11 September.

Edis said arranged marriages were acceptable in many communities, but forced marriage was different. The defendants wanted an arranged marriage for their daughter but “in the end it was going to require compulsion because she didn’t want to do it”.

Shafilea had been “appalled” by the prospect of an arranged marriage in rural Pakistan. When she returned to the UK, she was taken to hospital as an emergency case and needed regular treatment.

He said no one else had caused Shafilea distress “apart from her parents”. The prosecution claims they withdrew money from her bank account that she had saved from a part-time job.

Edis questioned the couple’s behaviour following Shafilea’s disappearance, not reporting it to police or attempting to find her. Iftikhar switched off his mobile phone and there were no calls made from the landline to try to find her, unlike two previous occasions when she was missing and they repeatedly phoned her.

The Ahmeds put their house on the market within two days. Iftikhar told a potential buyer they were moving to Lancashire “because the daughter had brought shame on the family”, Edis said. He added it was a surprising observation to make “if she had simply run away from home”.

The police were told of a potential sighting at a chemist’s in Glasgow in November 2003 following public appeals. The couple were shown CCTV footage and said they were 90% certain it was Shafilea, whereas her teacher said it was definitely not.

Months later when the body was identified, the Ahmeds issued a brief statement talking of their beautiful and irreplaceable daughter, which contrasts with their conduct in the previous September, when the prosecution say “they did nothing at all” after her disappearance.

Edis told the jury that Shafilea’s father had been married to a Scandinavian woman, Vivi Anderson, whom he had a son Tony with. In 1986 he married Farzana in Pakistan because Iftikhar “felt the pull of his family” and loyalty. When his uncle told him that it was time to marry Farzana, he complied.

Alesha Ahmed is expected to give evidence on Tuesday.

 

WHERE THE HELL ARE THIS GIRL’S FRIENDS? NOT SEXY AT ALL!!

I don’t even have any words to describe this picture. Let’s start from her house. Are all the mirrors shattered in her house? Moving beyond the house, where are her friends? Can they not tell her ridiculous she looks in that thing. Maybe they lied and told her that she looks hot! Sometimes you just look, shake your head and just wonder what the world is coming to.

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CORRUPTION ROCKS THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN NIGERIA PAGEANT (MBGN): MISS WORLD DISQUALIFIES MBGN 2012 WINNER

Scandal has hit the MBGN 2012 as the winner Isabella Ayuk has been disqualified by Miss World organizers over her age. The organizers of The Mos Beautiful Girl In Nigeria Peagent are now doing a ton of damage control to clean things up.

No doubt corruption is now a way of life in Nigeria and as such you find corrupt practice in anything we do in Nigeria.Alarm was raised that Isabella Ayuk, the lady who won the crown of the Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria (MBGN) is more than 26years which she claims she is and  many people felt that was an attempt at Blackmailing her! This was confirmed because the whistle blower claims “I knew this because Isabella’s younger sister who was my classmate in secondary school is now 27years old”.Today the truth has been told which the organisers of the MBGN, the Bruce family knew even before she contested! But instead, favoured her to be the winner because Isabella is dating Hon Emeka Ihedioha, the Deputy Speaker House of Representatives Abuja and she also warms the bed of a big time businessman Henry Imasekha, a very close friend of James Ibori. Today she has been disqualified from contesting in the Miss World Pageant due to age factor which she lied about and as such the first Runner up Diamete Charles will now represent Nigeria.

“My question is What Kind of Country do we Live in? Even in the Pageant industry there’s corruptio!. The Bruce family have now disgraced themselves and Nigeria before the entire world”. Pls Rebroadcast to say no to Corruption in Nigeria.- Juliet Eyiboh. Writes in from Calabar.

Silverbird Response
MBGN REPRESENTION, SILVERBIRD CLEARS THE AIRThe management of Silverbird, organisers of the annual Most Beautiful Girl in Nigeria and Africa’s longest running beauty pageant will be sending MBGN First Runner up, Miss DIAMETTE CHARLES GRANVILLE, to represent the country at the Miss World pageant holding in Mongolia, China in August.
MBGN winner, Miss ISABELLA AGBO AYUK will represent Nigeria at the Miss Universe.MBGN Second Runner up, Miss IFEOMA UMEOKEKE will be at the Miss Tourism International holding later in the year in China

In a signed statement, the
management said the decision was in the best interest of the beauty ambassadors, the company and the country at large.
‘As we celebrate our 25th anniversary in the world of beauty pageantry, Its our wish not to only raise the bar but replicate the groundbreaking records achieved by Agbani Darego as the first Black Africa’s Miss World 2001 as well as some past queens who have achieved remarkable results at some renowned international pageants in the recent past.
While we seek your understanding, we also urge you to pray for their victory at the various global beauty pageants where they will be flying the country’s flag”

Signed
GUY MURRAY BRUCE
Group Vice President, Silverbird

From CKN Nigeria
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AND YET THEY CALL AFRICANS BARBARIC? INDIAN FATHER ACCUSED OF KILLING BABY FOR BEING A GIRL

You hear stories like this from around the world and yet we, Africans, are the ones being called barbaric? I don’t think so. If you think your life is hard, imagine if you were never given the chance to begin your life. This is the most dangerous place to be born a girl.

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Nineteen-year-old Reshma Banu sits on the stairs outside her parents’ home, staring at the tiny screen on her cell phone. The video on the screen has her mesmerized: a very short home video of her baby girl, Afreen. The moments captured are precious because they show Banu’s only child alive and well.  Afreen died in the hospital. She was three months old.

Authorities say the baby was admitted to the hospital with bite marks, cigarette burns and a dislocated neck. Police say she was killed by her father.

“After my delivery my husband had come to see me and the baby. He said, ‘It is a girl, why did you give birth to a girl?’”

He wanted a boy, an heir. Girls were too expensive, he said. A couple of days after giving birth, Banu says her husband gave an ultimatum.

“For her wedding we will require a hundred thousand rupees (about US$1,800 dollars) for all the expense. If you can get that amount from your mother, then keep her, but if you can’t, then kill her,” Banu recalled her husband as saying.

She didn’t believe he meant it and was sure he would change his mind once he held his soft, bright-eyed baby girl.

Three months later, her baby is dead, and her husband is under arrest, accused of beating the baby to death. Police say he confessed to the killing.

This is by no means the first case of its kind in India. Attitudes, traditions, and economics have come together to make being a girl a dangerous prospect in the country, doctors say. Most of the time girls are disposed of long before they are born.

How? Sex-selective abortions.

India has a growing gender gap: The 2011 census showed that for every 1,000 boys six years or younger there were only 914 girls. It is the lowest child sex ratio since India’s independence in 1947.

The United Nations has said India is the most dangerous place to be a girl. Dr. Anand Krishnan at All India Institute of Medical Sciences (AIIMS), who has studied the gender gap for years, agrees.

“Yes, largely this is from the point of view of mortality statistics for girls versus boys,” Krishnan told CNN.

Sex-selective abortions are against the law in India but are still happening at an alarming rate, he said.

His study shows a surprising trend: Sex selective abortions among the educated and well-off seem to be more prevalent than among the desperately poor and uneducated. Despite greater prosperity, their mindsets have not changed and they have the money to pay for ultrasounds and abortions.

“A boy is seen as a better investment. They prefer boys,” Krishnan said.

The explanation goes something like this: In traditional Indian families the men marry and bring their bride home to live and take care of his parents.

Girls, on the other hand, marry and leave the home without providing extra financial support.

Moreover, a girl’s family can go broke trying to pay a dowry to get her married. Although outlawed in India, dowries are still common and take different forms throughout society.

Indian law also forbids doctors to tell a couple the sex of their child after an ultrasound, but many clinics break the law and do so anyway.

India has made an effort across the country to stop female infanticide.

CNN visited a village in Haryana state with one of the worst ratios of boys to girls, according to the Indian government. A campaign is under way to change villagers’ minds about girls.

Tiny placards above the doors of several homes say in Hindi: “If you get rid of your girls, where will you find your daughter-in-laws?”

A teenage boy wore a T-shirt that said, “Save our girls.”

Nonetheless, there were young boys everywhere and only a few young girls. Villagers only affirmed why there appeared to be an imbalance.

She had just come into the world. She was like a flower bud, and he killed her. I lost my daughter. What can be worse than this?
Reshma Banu

“Girls are mostly aborted here. The people want more boys. There is a shortage of girls,” Chandravati said without hesitation.

From CNN.com

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NO COMMENT! MY LIPS ARE SEALED

I have no comment!!! Do you?

GIRL STUCK BY SYRINGE IN GUEST HOUSE INN AND SUITES HOTEL BED

This is definitely going to be filed under bizarre news. You thought that roach motels were bad, how would you feel about crack motels?! An investigation is underway at a hotel in Aberdeen, Wash., after a little  girl was stuck with a syringe that had been left in her hotel bed, KOMO News  reported.

According to the station, Emily Smith was crawling into her bed at Guest  House Inn and Suites when the syringe pierced through the mattress and stuck her  right heel.

The needle, which was caked in dried blood, was found along with other  disturbing items under the mattress, including plastic bags and bloody bandages,  according to Emily’s mother.  The family is demanding answers from the  hotel as well as trying to understand what risks Emily now faces.

“Our main concern is HIV disease and hepatitis B or C,” Emily’s mother, Angie  Smith, told KOMO News.

The family, who had been in town for Emily’s fast-pitch tournament, was angry  to find that the hotel had still charged them for the room despite the incident.  However, the hotel told KOMO News that they considered the incident a “horrible  situation,” and once a police investigation is able to determine how the syringe  got under the mattress, they intend to refund the Smith family.

THIS VIDEO SHOULD PUT A SMILE ON YOUR FACE: 10 YEAR OLD DEAF GIRL REGAINS HEARING

If you’re having a bad day, this video should put a smile on your face. If it doesn’t, then you should get yourself checked out. It may be possible that you don’t have a heart in your chest. Read More:

A 10-year-old girl has is able to hear thanks to a ‘bionic ear’, ABC News reports.

Sammie Hicks, who was born with a genetic mutation in her ears, has been deaf for much of her life.

But the brave little girl, who has learned to read lips, said she hasn’t allowed her disability to slow her down.

 

“Just because you’re deaf, doesn’t mean you can’t go and do the things you want to do,” she said in an interview with ABC News.

Recently, a life-changing moment shook Sammie’s world. The little girl learned that her insurance would cover the cost of a cochlear implant — a device that would help her hear again.

In the hope that her story might inspire others, the Texas girl started keeping a video diary to document the whole process.

After undergoing a successful implant surgery in April, Sammie finally got her ‘bionic ear’ activated earlier this month.

In the video clip from her diary that documents that special day, Sammie is seen to visibly jump when the audiologist activates the implant.

“It sounds weird,” she said aloud. “Hey! I sound weird.”

It was a joyful, emotional moment.

Sammie soon began to cry.

“I asked her why she cried,” her father, Brian Hicks, told ABC News. “She said, ‘It was overwhelming. But the reason I really cried? I couldn’t believe all the stuff I was missing.’”

Though exhausted from all the new sounds in her ears, Sammie is readjusting well.

“If you couldn’t hear something that everyone else did then you get it and you can hear it and then your whole world is different,” she said in a video entry recorded before her surgery.

According to Sammie’s diary, her 8-year-old brother, Jacob, is also hearing impaired and will soon be getting his own cochlear implant.

VIDEO: TOO FAT TO DANCE?

Does anyone care? Check out the video and you decide

 

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VIDEO OF GIRL CONSOLING HER SOCCER PLAYER DAD IS THE CUTEST…TOUCHING

This is the cutest video ever. This video clearly shows how important it is, for fathers to stay present in their daughter’s lives.

De Graafschap midfielder Rogier Meijer, whose Dutch soccer squad was relegated from the Eredivisie following a 1-1 draw with FC Den Bosch on Sunday. But shining a light in the gloom was his daughter, who made her way onto the pitch to console her dad in the most adorable way possible. Thank heaven, for little girls.

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NIGERIANS AND NUDITY – IS THERE A DOUBLE STANDARD?

I just came across this Picture on Facebook today. It was called of ‘Three Nigerian Girls Posing Nude’. Upon a second look, it is actually the same girl dong her rendition of See no evil, Speak no evil, Hear no evil. As an artist, I have no problem with nudity as long as it is done tastefully. I think the human body is beautiful and a work of art by God, so why should we hide it or be ashamed of it?

I think that this girl beautiful. I don’t care if she is American, British or Nigerian. Beauty is Beauty. We must embrace our beauty. We must love ourselves. We must promote our beauty. If we do not, no one else will.

The person that posted this image said that the comments from the original post have been 90% negative. This is what he said, “Do you think Africans have a double standard when it comes to nude pictures…Lets face it, when Americans or the British pose nude most Africans call it Sexy, Hot, and Creative, and when Africans pose nude  most Africans view it in a negative light”. What are your thoughts?

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